These “moving and often surprising” (The Wall Street Journal) case histories meld science and storytelling to illuminate the complex relationship between the mind of someone with dementia and the mind of the person caring for them.

“[Kiper] evinces a capaciousness of sympathy and understanding for Alzheimer’s patients and (especially) their caregivers that infuses her portrayals of their struggles with Sacksian humanity.”—Scott Stossel, The American Scholar

After getting her master’s in clinical psychology, Dasha Kiper took a leave of absence from school and began to look after a Holocaust survivor with middle-stage Alzheimer’s. For a year, she lived with the emotional strain of caregiving, learning at firsthand how disorienting and painful it can be to look after a person whose condition blatantly disregards the rules of time, order, and continuity. Based on the subsequent decade she has spent counseling caregivers of dementia patients, Kiper offers an entirely new approach to understanding the relationship between patients and those tending to them.
Relying on a wide breadth of cognitive and neurological research and borrowing from philosophy and literature, Kiper explores the existential dilemmas created by this disease: a man believes his wife is an impostor; a woman’s imaginary friendships with famous authors drive a wedge between her and her devoted husband; another woman’s childhood trauma emerges to torment her son; a man’s sudden, intense Catholic piety provokes his wife.

Anyone taking care of a family member with dementia knows how difficult it can be, but Kiper explains why it is difficult, why the caregiver’s mind often mirrors the irrationality, denial, and rigidity that typically characterize the patient's behavior. By focusing on the healthy brain’s proclivities, Travelers to Unimaginable Lands reveals the neurological obstacles to caregiving, illuminating not only the terrible pressure the disease exerts on our closest relationships, but offering solace and perspective as well.
Contributor Bio(s)
Dasha Kiper is the former consulting clinical director of support groups at an Alzheimer’s organization and has an MA in clinical psychology from Columbia University. She has worked with both dementia patients and caregivers.

Author Residence: Brooklyn, NY

Author Hometown: Russia